Safety First at DateStLouis

Your safety is our top priority. Learn how to date safely in St. Louis with our comprehensive guide.

Online Safety

  • Keep conversations within DateStLouis until you're comfortable
  • Never share financial information or send money
  • Use our photo verification to ensure profiles are authentic
  • Be cautious of profiles asking to move off-platform quickly

First Date Safety

  • Always meet in public places like coffee shops or restaurants
  • Tell a friend or family member your plans and location
  • Arrange your own transportation to and from the date
  • Stay sober and in control during your first meetings

Personal Information Protection

  • Don't share your home address until you trust someone
  • Keep work details general until you know them better
  • Avoid sharing social media profiles early on
  • Never share passwords or security information

Red Flags to Watch For

  • Asks for money or financial assistance
  • Becomes angry when you set boundaries
  • Pushes to meet immediately or alone
  • Stories don't add up or change frequently

Reporting & Blocking

  • Report suspicious behavior immediately
  • Block users who make you uncomfortable
  • Our team reviews all reports within 24 hours
  • You can contact support@datestlouis.com anytime

St. Louis Emergency Resources

  • Emergency: 911
  • St. Louis Police: (314) 231-1212
  • Safe Connections Hotline: (314) 531-2003
  • RAINN National Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE

Need Immediate Help?

If you feel unsafe or need immediate assistance, don't hesitate to reach out.

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DateStLouis Safety Commitment

We're committed to creating the safest dating environment for St. Louis singles

Our Safety Features

  • Photo Verification: Every member must verify their profile with a real-time selfie
  • Background Checks: Optional background check badges for premium members
  • 24/7 Moderation: Our team monitors activity round the clock
  • Secure Messaging: End-to-end encrypted conversations
  • Emergency Button: Quick access to emergency services from within the app

Trust Your Instincts

Your safety and comfort should always come first. If something doesn't feel right, trust your gut. It's better to be cautious than to ignore warning signs.

Remember, a genuine person will respect your boundaries and understand your need to feel safe. Anyone who pressures you or makes you feel uncomfortable is not worth your time.

Date Safely with DateStLouis

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