DateStLouis FAQ

Everything you need to know about finding love in St. Louis with DateStLouis. Get answers to your questions about Date St Louis's #1 dating app.

General Questions

What is DateStLouis?

DateStLouis is the premier dating app exclusively for St. Louis singles. We help you Date St Louis by connecting you with verified local matches who share your interests and values. Our platform is designed specifically for the 314 area, featuring local date spot suggestions and neighborhood-based matching.

Is DateStLouis really free to join?

Yes! DateStLouis is completely FREE to use - no hidden fees, no premium tiers, no subscriptions! You can create a profile, browse matches, send unlimited messages, use all filters, and access every feature at absolutely no cost. Everything is 100% FREE while we build our amazing St. Louis singles community!

Who can join DateStLouis?

DateStLouis is exclusively for singles in the St. Louis area (314 area code). You must be 18 or older to join. We welcome all orientations and relationship preferences. Our focus on local dating ensures you'll only match with people who actually live in St. Louis, making it easier to meet in person.

How is DateStLouis different from other dating apps?

DateStLouis is built specifically for St. Louis singles. We offer hyperlocal matching by neighborhood, suggest popular STL date spots, verify all profiles with photo verification, and focus on quality matches over quantity. Our members are serious about finding real relationships, not casual hookups.

Account & Profile

How do I create a profile?

Creating a profile is easy! Click "Get Started Free" and follow these steps: 1) Enter your email and create a password, 2) Add your basic info and location, 3) Upload photos (we'll verify them for security), 4) Share your interests and what you're looking for, 5) Start browsing matches! The whole process takes less than 5 minutes.

What is photo verification?

Photo verification ensures all profiles are real people. When you upload photos, we ask you to take a quick selfie in a specific pose. Our system compares this to your profile photos to verify you're the person in the pictures. Verified profiles get a blue checkmark and see more matches!

Can I edit my profile after creating it?

Absolutely! You can update your profile anytime from your account settings. Change photos, update your bio, adjust your preferences, or add new interests. We recommend keeping your profile fresh to increase your visibility to potential matches.

How do I delete my account?

We hope you find love and won't need to delete your account! But if you do, go to Settings > Account > Delete Account. You can also pause your account if you're taking a break. Note that deleting your account removes all your data, matches, and messages permanently.

Matching & Dating

How does matching work on DateStLouis?

Our smart algorithm considers multiple factors: location proximity, shared interests, relationship goals, and activity patterns. You'll receive daily match suggestions tailored to your preferences. Mutual likes create a match, allowing you to start messaging. Best of all, everyone gets unlimited likes and can see who liked them first - all completely FREE!

What are St. Louis date spot suggestions?

When you match with someone, DateStLouis suggests perfect first date spots based on both your interests and location. From coffee at Kaldi's to dinner in The Hill, walks in Forest Park to Cardinals games - we know all the best spots to Date St Louis! Our suggestions consider your neighborhoods and shared interests.

How many matches will I get?

Match frequency varies based on your profile completeness, activity level, and preferences. Most active users see 5-10 quality matches per week. Complete profiles with verified photos get 3x more matches! Remember, we focus on quality over quantity - each match is carefully selected for compatibility.

Can I search for specific types of matches?

Yes! Use our filters to find exactly what you're looking for. Filter by age, neighborhood, interests, education, lifestyle choices, relationship goals, height, profession, and specific hobbies - all available to everyone for FREE! Save your preferences and we'll notify you of new matches. No premium membership needed for any search features!

Safety & Privacy

How does DateStLouis keep me safe?

Your safety is our top priority. We use photo verification to ensure real profiles, secure messaging within the app, the ability to block/report users instantly, and safety tips for meeting in person. We also partner with local St. Louis establishments to create safe meeting spaces for first dates.

Is my personal information secure?

Absolutely. We use bank-level encryption to protect your data. Your personal contact information is never shared with matches until you choose to share it. We never sell your data to third parties. You control what information appears on your profile and can adjust privacy settings anytime.

What should I do if someone makes me uncomfortable?

Your comfort and safety come first. You can unmatch, block, or report any user directly from their profile or chat. Our team reviews all reports within 24 hours. For immediate concerns, our safety team is available 24/7. We have a zero-tolerance policy for harassment or inappropriate behavior.

Can people see if I viewed their profile?

You can browse profiles anonymously - no one knows you viewed their profile unless you like them. Everyone also has access to the "Who Viewed Me" feature for FREE, so you can see who's checking out your profile. You always have full control over your visibility settings, and all privacy features are available to everyone at no cost!

Pricing & Access

Why is DateStLouis completely free?

DateStLouis is 100% FREE during our community building phase! We believe everyone deserves a chance at love without financial barriers. While we grow our St. Louis singles community, all features are completely free - unlimited messaging, advanced filters, seeing who likes you, and everything else. No credit card required, ever!

Will DateStLouis always be free?

DateStLouis is currently 100% FREE while we build our community of St. Louis singles. In the future, we may introduce optional premium features, but we'll always maintain a robust free tier. For now, enjoy unlimited access to every feature at no cost. We'll give plenty of notice before any changes, and early members will receive special benefits!

Do I need a credit card to join?

No credit card required! DateStLouis is completely free to join and use. Simply sign up with your email, create your profile, and start connecting with St. Louis singles immediately. We don't ask for any payment information because everything is FREE. No trials, no subscriptions, no hidden costs - just 100% free dating for St. Louis!

What features are included for free?

Everything is FREE! This includes: unlimited profile browsing, unlimited messaging, advanced search filters, photo verification, seeing who likes you, St. Louis date spot suggestions, neighborhood matching, daily match recommendations, profile boosts, read receipts, and all safety features. There are no premium tiers - every member gets full access to every feature!

Technical Issues

I can't log into my account. What should I do?

First, try resetting your password using the "Forgot Password" link. Check your email (including spam folder) for the reset link. If you're still having trouble, contact our support team at support@datestlouis.com with your registered email address. We'll help you regain access within 24 hours.

The app isn't loading properly. How can I fix this?

Try these steps: 1) Clear your browser cache and cookies, 2) Try a different browser (we recommend Chrome or Safari), 3) Disable browser extensions temporarily, 4) Check your internet connection, 5) Make sure JavaScript is enabled. If issues persist, contact support with your browser details.

I'm not receiving email notifications. Why?

Check these common issues: 1) Look in your spam/junk folder, 2) Add noreply@datestlouis.com to your contacts, 3) Verify your email address in account settings, 4) Check your notification preferences are turned on, 5) Some email providers delay delivery - wait 30 minutes. Contact support if emails still don't arrive.

How do I report a bug or technical issue?

We appreciate your help improving DateStLouis! Report bugs by emailing support@datestlouis.com with: 1) Description of the issue, 2) Steps to reproduce it, 3) Your device/browser info, 4) Screenshots if possible. Our tech team investigates all reports and usually fixes issues within 48-72 hours.

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