DateStLouis

Date St Louis the Right Way

Where St. Louis Falls in Love

DateStLouis has been connecting St. Louis singles and couples since 2002. Join the dating platform that knows and loves the 314 & 636. Find your people with 20+ years of local expertise.

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Est. 2002 • Serving STL for 20+ Years
Since 2002
STL Trusted
314 & 636

St. Louis's Original Dating Platform

Bringing St. Louis singles together since 2002

2002

Founded

20+

Years of Service

100%

STL Focused

314+636

Local Love

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DateStLouis has been a trusted name in St. Louis dating for over two decades. We've witnessed countless love stories bloom from Forest Park to the Arch, from Clayton to O'Fallon. Now we're launching our next chapter with cutting-edge features while keeping our local roots.

🎬 NEW FEATURE COMING SOON

Introducing Video Vibes

Show your true personality with 30-second video intros! Let potential matches see the real you - your smile, your laugh, your energy.

Quick & Easy Recording

Record directly in the app - no uploads needed. Just be yourself for 30 seconds!

3x More Matches

Members with video intros get 3 times more matches - personality wins!

100% Free Access

Everyone can create and view video intros completely free!

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Video Vibes

Tap to record your 30-second intro

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Smart Matching

AI-powered compatibility

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Perfect Matches

Based on personality

Finding Love Made Simple

Our streamlined process helps you connect with compatible singles in just a few steps

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Create Your Profile

Sign up as an individual or couple. Share what makes you unique and what kind of connections you're seeking.

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Get Matched Daily

Our smart algorithm suggests compatible matches based on your relationship style, preferences, and values.

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Connect & Meet

Start meaningful conversations and plan real dates at St. Louis's best spots. We'll even suggest great venues!

Why DateStLouis is Different

We're not just another dating app. DateStLouis is built by St. Louis locals, for all relationship styles. Date St Louis with a platform that celebrates your authentic self.

Hyperlocal DateStLouis Matching

Date St Louis locals from Soulard to CWE, Chesterfield to St. Charles. Find singles across the 314 & 636 who love the same spots.

  • Neighborhood-based matching
  • St. Louis date spot suggestions

Photo Verified Profiles

Every member is photo-verified to ensure authenticity. No catfishing, no fake profiles - just real people.

Quality Over Quantity

Our premium model attracts serious daters. Everyone here is looking for real relationships, not hookups.

Smart Matching

Our algorithm learns your preferences and suggests highly compatible matches tailored just for you.

Date Spot Suggestions

Get personalized recommendations for the best date spots in St. Louis based on shared interests.

Inclusive Connections

Connect as singles or couples. Find matches that align with your relationship style and preferences.

Safe Communication

Message, voice, and video chat safely within our platform. Your personal info stays private until you're ready.

Real Stories, Real Love

Hear from St. Louis singles and couples who found meaningful connections on DateStLouis

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Sarah & Mike

Matched 8 months ago

"We bonded over our love for Forest Park and Cardinals games. DateStLouis understood what we were looking for better than any other app. Now we're planning our wedding!"

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James & Emily

Matched 1 year ago

"The photo verification gave us confidence we were talking to real people. Our first date at the City Museum was perfect - DateStLouis even suggested it!"

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Lisa & David

Matched 6 months ago

"After trying every dating app out there, DateStLouis was refreshing. Only local matches meant we could actually meet up easily. And everything is 100% free!"

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Ready to Find Your Person💕?

Join thousands in St. Louis who are already connecting and finding meaningful relationships. Your perfect match - whether you're single or partnered - is just a click away.

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🔥 NEW: Dating Hotline Coming Soon!

St. Louis Dating Hotline

Get dating advice, tips for your first date, or just chat with our local dating experts!
Because sometimes you need a real voice to guide your love life

314-441-DATE (3283)

Coming Soon:

  • • First date advice
  • • Profile optimization tips
  • • Local date spot recommendations

Stay tuned for launch details!

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about finding connections in St. Louis

Who can join DateStLouis?

DateStLouis welcomes all adults 18+ in the St. Louis area. Whether you're single, in a couple, or exploring different relationship styles, our platform celebrates authentic connections. We verify all members to ensure a safe, genuine community.

How does the matching work?

Our algorithm considers your preferences, relationship style, interests, and location to suggest compatible matches. You can filter by what you're looking for - whether that's singles, couples, or specific relationship dynamics. All matches respect your stated preferences and boundaries.

Is DateStLouis really free?

Yes! During our community building phase, all features are 100% free. This includes messaging, advanced filters, and profile boosts. We believe everyone deserves a chance to find meaningful connections regardless of their budget.

Can couples create a joint profile?

Absolutely! We offer couple profiles for partners who want to explore connections together. Both partners must verify their identity, and you can specify exactly what you're looking for. Our platform supports all consensual relationship configurations.

How do you ensure privacy and discretion?

We take privacy seriously. You control who sees your profile, can blur photos until matching, and choose your visibility settings. Many of our members value discretion, and we've built features to support that need while fostering genuine connections.

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