DateStLouis - St. Louis Dating Since 2002

Where St. Louis Falls in Love

DateStLouis has been connecting St. Louis singles and couples since 2002. The dating platform that knows and loves the 314 & 636. Join 487 new members this week!

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✨ FIND YOUR STL MATCH TYPE

What's Your St. Louis Dating Style?

Take our 60-second quiz to discover your perfect STL match and get personalized recommendations!

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🏆 WHY CHOOSE DATESTLOUIS

Better Than The Big Apps

See how DateStLouis compares to national dating apps. We're 100% STL-focused with everything free!

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Couples Welcome ✅ ❌ ❌ ❌
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20+ Years Experience ✅ 2012 2014 2016
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#DateStLouis Love Stories

Real couples sharing their journey from first swipe to first date across St. Louis

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First date at Forest Park!

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Engaged at the Arch!

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St. Louis's Original Dating Platform

Bringing St. Louis singles together since 2002

2002

Founded

20+

Years of Service

100%

STL Focused

314+636

Local Love

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DateStLouis has been a trusted name in St. Louis dating for over two decades. We've witnessed countless love stories bloom from Forest Park to the Arch, from Clayton to O'Fallon. Now we're launching our next chapter with cutting-edge features while keeping our local roots.

🎬 NEW FEATURE COMING SOON

Introducing Video Vibes

Show your true personality with 30-second video intros! Let potential matches see the real you - your smile, your laugh, your energy.

Quick & Easy Recording

Record directly in the app - no uploads needed. Just be yourself for 30 seconds!

3x More Matches

Members with video intros get 3 times more matches - personality wins!

100% Free Access

Everyone can create and view video intros completely free!

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Video Vibes

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Smart Matching

AI-powered compatibility

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Perfect Matches

Based on personality

Find Love in Your Neighborhood

See where St. Louis singles are connecting! Click on any neighborhood to see members nearby.

Soulard

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847

Active Members

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CWE

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1,243

Active Members

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The Hill

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592

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Tower Grove

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921

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Downtown

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1,089

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Clayton

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Explore All 20+ STL Neighborhoods
📍 HYPERLOCAL MATCHING

Date in Your Neighborhood

Why waste time on people across the river? DateStLouis focuses on matching you with singles in your area - making real dates actually happen!

Distance-Based Matching

Set your radius from 1-25 miles. Most matches happen within 5 miles!

Neighborhood Vibes

Match with people who love the same STL spots you do!

Date Spot Suggestions

Get personalized first date ideas based on your shared neighborhood!

Find Matches Near You

Finding Love Made Simple

Our streamlined process helps you connect with compatible singles in just a few steps

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Create Your Profile

Sign up as an individual or couple. Share what makes you unique and what kind of connections you're seeking.

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Get Matched Daily

Our smart algorithm suggests compatible matches based on your relationship style, preferences, and values.

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Connect & Meet

Start meaningful conversations and plan real dates at St. Louis's best spots. We'll even suggest great venues!

🛡️ YOUR SAFETY IS OUR PRIORITY

Date Safely with Confidence

We've built industry-leading safety features so you can focus on finding love, not worrying about scams.

Photo Verification

Every profile photo verified by real humans. No catfishing!

87% Verified

24/7 Moderation

Real humans review reports within 1 hour. Always watching!

10K+ Blocked

Privacy First

Your data is encrypted. We never sell your information!

GDPR Compliant

Block & Report

One-tap blocking. Reports reviewed in under 1 hour!

99% Response

Visit Our Safety Center

Learn about our verification process, safety tips, and how we protect your data. Knowledge is power!

  • Video verification walkthrough
  • First date safety tips
  • How to spot scammers
  • Privacy settings guide
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See How DateStLouis Works

Get a preview of our interactive matching experience - no signup required!

🔥 Swipe Preview

Try our intuitive swipe interface with sample profiles from St. Louis!

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Sarah, 28

Central West End

"Love exploring STL's coffee shops ☕ and checking out new restaurants on The Hill!"

Coffee Lover Foodie Active

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⚾ 314/636 Local Pride

The Best STL Date Spots

From Cardinals games to coffee in CWE - discover the perfect spots for your first date!

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#1 Popular

Forest Park

Walk the zoo, paddle boat, or picnic by the Grand Basin

🚗 Central Location 💰 Free
Outdoors Active

847 DateStLouis couples met here!

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#2 Romantic

The Hill

Authentic Italian dining at Zia's, Lorenzo's, or Adriana's

🚗 10 min from CWE 💰 $$-$$$
Foodie Romantic

623 DateStLouis couples met here!

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#3 Sports

Busch Stadium

Cardinals game + Ballpark Village after for drinks

🚗 Downtown 💰 $$-$$$
Sports Fun

1,129 DateStLouis couples met here!

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City Museum

Unique, playful, unforgettable - perfect icebreaker!

🚗 Downtown 💰 $15/person
Creative Adventure

492 DateStLouis couples met here!

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CWE Coffee Shops

Blueprint, Kayak's, or Shaw's - casual & cozy vibes

🚗 Central West End 💰 $-$$
Coffee Casual

1,243 DateStLouis couples met here!

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Soulard Bar Hopping

Molly's, 1860s, McGurk's - historic neighborhood vibes

🚗 Soulard 💰 $$
Nightlife Social

847 DateStLouis couples met here!

💡 STL First Date Tips from Our Members

Start Short & Sweet

Coffee in CWE (30-60 min) lets you gauge chemistry before committing to a long dinner.

Pick Public Spots

Forest Park, Soulard, or The Hill are safe, public, and great for conversation.

Sports = Instant Bonding

Cardinals or Blues games create shared excitement and natural conversation.

Unique > Generic

City Museum or Cherokee Street beats chain restaurants every time!

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Cardinals Fans

1,847 members

Find fellow Cardinals fans to catch a game at Busch Stadium or Ballpark Village!

Baseball Sports Bar Tailgating
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Blues Fans

1,293 members

Connect with Blues fans who love Enterprise Center and playoff watch parties!

Hockey Stanley Cup Let's Go Blues

Why DateStLouis is Different

We're not just another dating app. DateStLouis is built by St. Louis locals, for all relationship styles. Date St Louis with a platform that celebrates your authentic self.

Hyperlocal DateStLouis Matching

Date St Louis locals from Soulard to CWE, Chesterfield to St. Charles. Find singles across the 314 & 636 who love the same spots.

  • Neighborhood-based matching
  • St. Louis date spot suggestions

Photo Verified Profiles

Every member is photo-verified to ensure authenticity. No catfishing, no fake profiles - just real people.

Quality Over Quantity

Our premium model attracts serious daters. Everyone here is looking for real relationships, not hookups.

Smart Matching

Our algorithm learns your preferences and suggests highly compatible matches tailored just for you.

Date Spot Suggestions

Get personalized recommendations for the best date spots in St. Louis based on shared interests.

Inclusive Connections

Connect as singles or couples. Find matches that align with your relationship style and preferences.

Safe Communication

Message, voice, and video chat safely within our platform. Your personal info stays private until you're ready.

❤️ REAL STL LOVE STORIES

Real Stories, Real Love

Join 3,847+ couples who found love on DateStLouis. Here are their stories from across the 314 & 636.

Sarah & Mike
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📍 CWE + Soulard

Sarah & Mike

Together 8 months

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"We bonded over Forest Park runs and Cardinals games. Now we're planning our wedding at the Jewel Box!"

Verified • First date: Loading Dock
James & Emily
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📍 The Hill + Clayton

James & Emily

Together 1 year

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"Photo verification gave us confidence. Our City Museum first date was perfect - DateStLouis even suggested it!"

Verified • First date: City Museum
Lisa & David
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📍 Tower Grove

Lisa & David

Together 6 months

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"After trying every dating app, DateStLouis was refreshing. Local matches meant we could actually meet up!"

Verified • First date: Tower Grove Park

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🔥 NEW: Dating Hotline Coming Soon!

St. Louis Dating Hotline

Get dating advice, tips for your first date, or just chat with our local dating experts!
Because sometimes you need a real voice to guide your love life

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Coming Soon:

  • • First date advice
  • • Profile optimization tips
  • • Local date spot recommendations

Stay tuned for launch details!

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about finding connections in St. Louis

Who can join DateStLouis?

DateStLouis welcomes all adults 18+ in the St. Louis area. Whether you're single, in a couple, or exploring different relationship styles, our platform celebrates authentic connections. We verify all members to ensure a safe, genuine community.

How does the matching work?

Our algorithm considers your preferences, relationship style, interests, and location to suggest compatible matches. You can filter by what you're looking for - whether that's singles, couples, or specific relationship dynamics. All matches respect your stated preferences and boundaries.

Is DateStLouis really free?

Yes! During our community building phase, all features are 100% free. This includes messaging, advanced filters, and profile boosts. We believe everyone deserves a chance to find meaningful connections regardless of their budget.

Can couples create a joint profile?

Absolutely! We offer couple profiles for partners who want to explore connections together. Both partners must verify their identity, and you can specify exactly what you're looking for. Our platform supports all consensual relationship configurations.

How do you ensure privacy and discretion?

We take privacy seriously. You control who sees your profile, can blur photos until matching, and choose your visibility settings. Many of our members value discretion, and we've built features to support that need while fostering genuine connections.

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